Deity or Devil: Help

These are some links, that I've assembled about borderline personality disorder. Some are communal, others are simply informative. Definitions:

Diagnostic Criteria for Borderline (Courtesy Wikipedia.)
My explanation of Borderline as of 9.9.09.
Resources From Borderlinechat.com.
Other diagnostic information: Please excuse the shitty formatting, it's borrowed from the defunct bpdresources.com.
Paranoia a description of paranoia. The page is styled poorly, but the article is good.
BorderlinePersonlityDisorder.com I haven't explored much, they probably have information though.

Communication:

Invalidation: A Description of what it is, and how it functions.
Invalidation and Borderline courtesy of BPD Family.com.
Validation "Painful feelings that are expressed, acknowledged and validated by a trusted listener will diminish." Also bpdfamily.com.
Consistency Also...bpdfamily.com.
BPD Family.com BPD family.com is a website designed to provide support and information for people who have someone with borderline in their lives, including friends, family, and relationship partners.

Self Injury and Suicidal Ideation:

Overview There's a lot of information on this page, including causes and some things that help, which I agree with.
For Family and Friends from self-injury.net, talking about stages of reaction and some do's and don'ts.
Suicidal ideation: Some very general sort of information, and basic suggestions.